I know that the
following is a study based in Britain [1] with similar statistics cited by the British-based
publication called The New Statesman, [2] and may not necessarily reflect the
attitudes of women in every nation, but if this is how women, and especially
young women, are increasingly feeling about men, then the best thing that could
be done to remedy that attitude would be if the presence and availability of
every unmarried male were to somehow be removed.
It does no good for
men to fight misandry with misogyny; misogyny only adds fuel to that fire. And it does no good to fight contempt with
contempt; that just creates an endless cycle of contempt between the two
genders and would only serve to further and maintain the gender gap that ought
not be.
So, what can be
done to change the attitude of women towards men for the better?
And to any female
readers out there of any given age bracket, please do not get me wrong; I know
that there are men out there who are legitimate creeps, but it isn’t just the
bad who are suffering from this increasing contempt for men that women are being
increasingly influenced by, but also men of fairly decent character who only
want a woman in their life, not to dominate, not to suppress, but just to
simply love and cherish and for that woman in their life to love and cherish
them in turn.
They are suffering
from a prejudicial contempt that they did not bring upon themselves, but is
being projected on to them due to lies and misleading perceptions about men by
which far too many women are being influenced for which radical feminist
ideology, by which modern feminism has come to be defined, is largely to blame
and by which a staggering number of women are being deceived, and if not that,
then women holding men up to standards and preferences that the vast majority,
including commitment-minded men of good character will never be able to meet
and tragically become subject to an involuntary celibacy and become victims of
a loneliness pandemic that many men sadly suffer from and it is not the intent
of this post to give an in-depth explanation of what involuntary celibacy is
and what causes it except that I will say that there is the prejudicial
definition of an incel which does not define or represent all incels and the
prejudicial definition of an incel is a man who is unable to attract women due to
adhering to a chauvinistic or misogynistic ideology and though granted that
misguided ideology and bad character can disqualify a man from being a
prospective spouse, there are those who are incels, not because they did
anything wrong or because of holding to an errant ideology, but for reasons and
circumstances that are of no fault of their own; they may be fairly decent and
productive people but for some reason, the opposite gender just doesn’t find
them desirable and in many cases for reasons that should not be deal-breakers
when choosing a prospective spouse and that is all that I will say on the
subject.
And unless
conviction for the better stirs within the hearts, minds, and souls of women, I
honestly do not see what will put an end to this gender gap that ought not be
and must not be unless women are deprived of male presence and availability for
a season and I do not see how that would be possible unless God were either to
permit or raise up something else to fill the “wife” shaped-vacuum that resides
in most men and just as there is a God-shaped void within every person that
only God is able to fill, there is also a spouse-shaped void within most people
that only a figure of the opposite gender can fill and as crazy as this sounds,
I believe that if too many women refuse to fill the void in a man’s life that
only a woman, and a wife in particular, can fill, there will be something out
there that will be ready and even eager to fill that void and it will come in a
female form:
Women, it will
look like you.
It may even act
like you.
But it will not be
you.
And as to how that
will manifest itself, I don’t know but this now leads me to have you all take a
look at the following from Redpillbot on X. [3]
Here he shows footage of female humanoid robots:
Now granted it may not all be real and may very well, as the community notes claim, be doctored by A.I and they may be in a
primitive form now, but one day, if this present age persists, a way may very
well, perhaps within another ten or twenty years, be found to perfect this
technology with the use of bio-mechanic in which robotic women may very well be
produced that will be made to look like the real thing and exactly like the
real thing and they may even be capable of producing robotic women even in
personalized customized forms, even with hair, eye, skin-color, hair length,
height, and body mass that each man seeking one out may prefer.
They may even come
programmed with whatever set of skills that each buyer feels that he needs.
And this robotic
woman will not care what the man she ends up with looks like.
She will not care
about his height or body mass.
She will not care
what is in his bank account.
She will not care
if he is employed or not.
She will not care
if he is able-bodied or disabled.
She will not be
concerned about anything the man she is with may lack
And she will give
freely and unconditionally affection and even sexual intimacy to the man that
she is with.
Of course, the men
with these androids will know that these are not real women and that they are
just machines, but should it come down to it, they’d rather have a prosthetic
than live without and should such a thing be successfully produced, why would a
man want to earn favor, affection, and intimacy, that he could have for free
and unconditionally?
I hope and pray that women who are seeing this will
take this as a warning sign to them that if they don’t start being more flexible
in their preferences, and start lowering their expectations significantly, and
learn to practice unconditional love towards their prospective spouse, you just
might find yourself being replaced in the lives of men with something they
think is better than you and find no need to approach and pursue you anymore.
But this isn’t the
only possible means of something filling that “female companion” shaped void in
a man that many women might not do unconditionally and from a source far more sinister.
In the book of Daniel, I read a curious
passage that states “they shall mingle themselves with the seed of men but they
shall not cleave to one another.” (Dan. 2:43)
It is commonly
believed that this passage is simply speaking of a forthcoming kingdom that
will be divided against itself, but from a contextual standpoint, I believe
that it is speaking of something much more and it won’t be the first time that
the phenomena that I believe that this passage is foretelling took place and
so, to help you understand what I am about to say, a similar event took place
before the flood in the days of Noah was brought upon the earth due to the
wickedness that was upon the earth and in those days, it was written that “the
sons of God came in unto the daughters of men, and they bare children to them”
(Gen. 6:5) which the passage goes on to state produced angel or demon/human
hybrids and not just before the flood but afterwards as well.
(v. 5)
The next time that
this attempt to produce these hybrids is carried out, it does not appear,
according to the context of the passage of Daniel 2:43 that it will be angels
taking on the form of men and impregnating women. This time, it appears that there will be
entities who will take on the form of women who will attempt to get impregnated
by human men and who will be the men that these things would take for
themselves in an attempt to become pregnant by them? Likely men who are longing
for wives but are unable to find any suitable women willing to be their wives;
at least that would be my personal theory, but the passage also indicates that
this second attempt to produce these hybrids will end in failure hence where it
says “they shall not cleave to one another” (Dan. 2:43) for it appears that God
will not allow this to happen again, but these beings will know very well how
to fill that “wife-shaped” void in men.
They will know how
to make these men who have been rejected to feel special and valued.
They will not care
about what the men they take will look like, what they lack, or what their
circumstances.
They will be able
to easily capture men’s hearts and affections and win their trust.
They will no
exactly what forms to take that will draw men to them and all to achieve one
purpose and that is corrupt and ultimately destroy the human race.
Even if they
cannot become pregnant by human men, if their intent is to bring about the
eventual destruction of the human race, they will, by taking male availability
and presence away from women, and cause humanity, if need be, to die a slow and
quiet death by lulling the human race into a false sense of peace and security.
The reason why the
“sons of God”, being angelic beings, engaged in sexual relations with human
women was ultimately for the purpose of corrupting and eventually destroying
the human race. They may attempt to do
the same thing again, but this time, it will be female forms in which they
arrive.
Whether it comes
in the form of a mass production of female humanoid robots that look like women
or whether it comes in the form of an army of entities who appear in the form
of women the point that must be made is that if women by and large cease to
fill the void in the lives of men that they were meant to, there is something
else out there which will easily fill that void and they will know how to do
that very well.
If the gender gap
that is largely responsible for the current male loneliness crisis that we
sometimes hear about should reach its peak, there will be someone or something
that will supply a solution that will be viable to the men desiring intimate
companionship that they feel unable to attain that they know only a female can
provide and if such a solution is supplied, then that will give freely and even
seemingly unconditionally that which men have desired and hoped for from women, that
will be the day when men will say to women:
“we no longer need
you and we no longer want you”
when they think that the solution being supplied
to them to rescue them from the loneliness pandemic and free them from the
burden of involuntary celibacy will be a far better deal than what they would
be receiving from what they might perceive as being the typical woman when that
solution seemingly gives female affection and companionship far more freely and
far more unconditionally that what it seems that many women do.
If the solution
presented comes in the form of a mass production of humanoid robots who look
and act just like real women and are designed and programmed to each man’s
personal preference, it will be seen as a means to alleviate their loneliness
and state of involuntary celibacy and even a tool of deliverance.
But if the
solution presents itself as an army of entities manifesting themselves in the
form of women who are eager to take for themselves the men that women don’t
seem to want, those entities will be looked upon by the men who are taken by them as
saviors, but honestly, I don’t think that solution will come in just one form
or another; I believe it might even present itself through both means, and the day that
happens will be the day that it will be seen just how much faith men have lost
in women; the very thing God had intended to be his most closest and intimate
companion and whom men believe have failed them miserably in that capacity and
the day that men lose faith in women is the day that they lose faith in
humanity and the day they lose faith in humanity is the when they themselves become
in danger of losing their own humanity.
There is a reason
why God made women to be empathetic and nurturing by nature and it isn’t just
for the rearing of children. I believe God
gave women those unique attributes to preserve men’s faith in humanity by
offering to them a love and a companionship that is unconditional and not
manipulative and to any commitment-minded men who are willing to receive it,
but I fear that a staggering number of women have become too blind, too
selfish, too bitter, too hate-filled, too hard-hearted, too conceited and prideful,
and too rigid in their preferences and expectations to see how important of a
role they have in preserving the humanity of men by helping him to preserve his
faith in humanity.
There is a saying
that behind every great man is a great woman.
And I believe that there is a lot of truth in that, and I also believe that
behind every good and decent man is also a good and decent woman if only women
will direct what empathy they have and what nurturing capacities they have
towards those things that are good and are decent in the eyes of God.
Now, I know that
there will be those women who will read this and will tell me all about the changes that
men who have been unable to find a suitable and available wife need to make if
they want to be liberated from their state of “involuntary celibacy” and I
never once said that there aren’t changes that men can and should make in order
for them to be looked upon more favorably by women---there are---but men are
not the only ones who need to make changes in their thinking and mindset, women
do as well.
There is a lot
that both men and women need to do to close this gender gap; the fault is not
solely with women or men. The fault is
with both. In fact, I came across two
articles, one from a British based publication called The Guardian,
written by Stefanie O'Connell, and another written by Bettina Arndt; Stefanie’s
article reveals the changes that men need to make in order for women to view
them more favorably and Arndt’s article provides insight on the changes that
women need to make as well, but beginning with O’Connell’s article, she shares
stories from some women whose financial independence made them undesirable to
prospective spouses:
When Tiffany Tate
put the wheels in motion to buy her first home, it felt like a win – until a
date’s response stopped her cold.
“If you buy that
house, what’s a guy going to do for you?” he said. It was just after their
first date, and just before what would be their last.
Tiffany, then 29,
had just ended a long-term relationship and moved from her home town of
Winston-Salem to Charlotte for a new job at a career development center. She
had just joined Match.com and was starting to dip her toe into the Charlotte
dating scene. Her date, previously promising, was clearly struggling to
understand why she would want a serious relationship if she was going to buy
her own home.
Tiffany was
thrown. “I was like, ‘I don’t understand the question.’”…
“It was pretty
jarring,” Tiffany said of that date. “Why would me buying a house be a
deterrent for a guy? Wouldn’t that be a positive? He went from seeming really
nice to kind of aggressive. Like, ‘Good luck finding somebody as good as me
when you’re Miss Independent.’”
“I’ve always
wanted to have equity, especially because I’m a single Black woman,” a woman,
whom I’ll call Tonya, told me. “I wanted to make sure that I have something to
lean on.”
Tonya, who wanted
to be anonymous because of the backlash she experienced while pursuing her
ownership goals, moved to San Francisco in 2021 to accept a faculty position at
the University of California, San Francisco. Given the historic rise in Bay
Area rental prices, Tonya considered home ownership an investment. She wasn’t
in a serious relationship, but she didn’t want to wait for one to prioritize
her financial future. “I just wanted to make sure that there was something in
my name,” she said.
Tonya was 36 when
she closed on her condo, and before long, she experienced friction in her love
life. She would go on a few dates, and everything would be going well. “And
then they find out,” said Tonya.
It wasn’t just
that men lost interest when they found out she owned her own place – it also
seemed to trigger combativeness, even hostility, in them. “I feel like it
immediately puts men on the defensive, so they start talking about their own
finances and what they’re able to do.”
It wasn’t Tonya’s
first time managing the discomfort her achievements elicited in prospective
partners. She had already learned to downplay her successes as a professional
woman working in the sciences. “As soon as I tell people I’m a scientist, they
shut down or they start talking about what they’re doing.”
But she had hoped
things might play out differently after being set up with someone through a
mutual acquaintance. “He was mature. He was in his late 40s, so in a position
where there wasn’t time to just play around. I felt he was someone I could talk
to.”
When he arrived at
her condo to visit, things unfolded in a painfully familiar way. “It was a nice
building and I think that really threw him off,” she recalled. “He was like,
‘Oh, the rent must be crazy here.’ And I was like, ‘No I actually own it. I thought
I told you that.’ The energy shifted immediately.
“I could feel his
male ego kicking in, like, ‘I can provide too,’” Tonya remembered. She tried to
reassure him, clarifying that she did not expect a man to take care of her and
that she wanted to build something together. But things only escalated from there.
“He was just being volatile and angry over mild things,” she said. When she
voiced her opinion, he would call her needy or ask her point blank: “Do you
want to be the husband in the relationship now?”
“They view it as
you trying to emasculate them, even when you specifically say, ‘No, that’s not
what I’m trying to do.’” [4]
And Bettina
Arndt’s article explores the other side which claims that men are becoming
discouraged and demoralized when it comes to seeking a suitable marriage
partner and why that may be:
The modern woman:
a prospectus.
They are the most
miserable, anxious, and insecure cohort in living memory — hardly great
marriage material.
Most married women
go off sex — and the husband who objects is seen as the problem.
Many women don’t
actually like men very much. The more educated she is, the higher the contempt.
They’ve gone full
throttle left — and three quarters of college-educated women won’t even date a
man who votes differently.
They’ve rigged the
education system and colonised corporate and institutional life, turning
universities and workplaces into man-repellent factories.
Yet their
hypergamy (desire to marry up) is still running hot. Despite outnumbering men
in education and careers, they demand a tall, equally high-status unicorn.
The modern female
threat-detection system is hyperactive. Almost any male behaviour — silence,
opinions, jokes, breathing — gets flagged as a red flag.
They’re extremely
well-versed in the lucrative economics of divorce, including a well-timed false
allegation to eliminate tedious shared parenting.
What rational man
reads this list and thinks: yes, that’s exactly what’s been missing from my
life? [5]
When we take time
to examine both Stefanie O’Connell’s and Bettina Arndt’s articles on the gender
gap subject side by side, we can clearly see that there are changes that both
men and women need to make to narrow the gender gap in their ways of their
thinking, their expectations of each other, and their perceptions of one
another; the gender gap is the fault of both sides.
Men should not be
intimidated by women who are self-sufficient and independent. There is nothing wrong with a woman being
strong and independent in and of itself.
Strong and independent women under the right spirit, with the right
heart and mindset, and driven by right and honorable motives can actually be
the best companions and partners in a marriage that a man could ask for.
Commitment minded
men should only be concerned with loving and cherishing a prospective spouse
and a man who loves his wife will not want to assert himself over or dominate
her.
He will not expect
her to be a dependent, servant, or slave and in fact, he shouldn’t even want
that as he should only expect her to be a reliable and trustworthy partner with
him for as long as they both must live in this present world.
He should not
attempt to compete against her (who cares who does what better than the other
and who cares who has the most in their bank account?)
He should not try
to suppress her but should encourage her in her respective pursuits, whatever
they might be, provided that they are honorable and respectable pursuits and
should, to whatever extent that he can, do what he can to help her fulfill her
respective visions dreams, just as he would want her to help him fulfill his
respective goals.
I am all for
giving women the same rights in society as men and applying the same standards
to them as they are to men (with a few exceptions; I am opposed to women being
drafted and sent off to war for practical and common sense reasons) and I am
all for affording women the opportunity to prove themselves in any given trade
or occupation they seek just like any man.
I want women to be
every bit as capable of living independently and as self-sufficiently as any
man which is why it doesn’t bother me if a woman owns her own home or operates
her own business and the reason why I want women to be just as capable of being
as self-sufficient and as financially independent as any man is for the
following:
1. To minimize the risk of them being trapped in
a tyrannical situation (there are men out there who are creeps; I understand
that)
2. To minimize the risk of ending up in a
destitute situation (her husband could leave her, she could be widowed, or her
husband could suffer a debilitating illness or disabling injury that might
prevent him from working and providing)
3. So that when they do decide to marry, they do
so only because they want to and not because they have to and to a man that
they can genuinely love and not for convenience, to receive services, or for
financial or material advantage or gain.
Any man who is
against a woman being self-sufficient and independent is either egotistical or
he is looking for someone whom he can dominate and control and that ought to be
a red flag to any woman looking for a prospective husband because a man seeking
only love and intimate companionship is not going to be opposed to his
prospective wife being a strong and independent (self-sufficient) woman and he
is not going to seek to control or dominate her, compete against her, or try to
place himself above her. He will only
want her to be a loving and faithful companion to him as it should be in a
marriage.
But women should
not simply write off a prospective spouse simply because he happens to be of a
lower economic bracket than her or even less educated than her. It would be one thing for a man to be held in
contempt for distaining a woman’s ability to be self-sufficient, but if women
of a high or middle-economic status hold men of lower status in contempt simply
because they were not as fortunate nor blessed with the same advantages as they
were, then they are not the strong independent women that they claim to be;
they are only exposing just how insecure, conceited, and vain they are.
A strong and
independent woman who knows what is needed to make a relationship work will
understand that her prospective spouse doesn’t need to make as much money as
she is making in order for the two of them to have a strong and secure marriage
and a good satisfying relationship provided that the only thing that interests
them is just having a trustworthy intimate companion who loves and cherishes
them. She will understand that marriage
is not about money or who makes the most but about a shared mutual love that
she and her husband have between them.
And a woman who
respects and loves her husband is not going to use sexual intimacy as a
bargaining chip or ration it but will offer and give it freely and
unconditionally. All that she should
ever expect from him in return is his love and presence but to use sexual
intimacy as a bargaining chip or as a means of control is not loving your
spouse; it isn’t even respecting them.
Either your prospective spouse is someone you are able be sexual
intimate on a regular basis or they are not and if they aren’t the sort that
you feel that you can be that way with, then they will be much better off with
someone who can be than they would ever be with you.
Now granted that
marriage should not be about just sexual intimacy, but at the same time, the
importance of sexual intimacy should not be underestimated either.
But one thing that
both men and women are guilty of and what society throughout the centuries is
guilty of is that they have shamed both men and women to be a certain way and
where the place of each is in society and society has molded both into holding
each other to standards and expectations that most are just not able to live up
to when we shouldn’t be telling men and women how they should be or what their
place in society should be but rather, both need to just be themselves and to
be encourage to pursue whatever their respective endeavors they might have in
their hearts to pursue and to be afforded the opportunity to prove themselves
in whatever occupation they purse and both need to just simply accept each
other for who they are and as they are.
And while there is
nothing wrong with treating men and women as equals granting them the same set
of rights and liberties, and applying the same standards to both, (it's actually biblical: Gen. 1:26, Num. 15:16, Acts 10:34, Gal. 3:28, Col. 3:11) we cannot
avoid the fact that there are differences between the two genders and not just physically
speaking, but even in how they behave, react to certain situations, and their
thinking processes and those differences that set women and men apart from each other both physically and even psychologically do not make either one inferior or superior to the other and they do not, in and of themselves, make either one evil but those differences are the reason why by nature there will always be tasks that men
will by nature better at performing than women and there will be those tasks
that are best done with a woman’s touch instead of that of a man and why one gender will have a greater capacity in certain attributes than the other.
Commitment minded
men are not expecting perfection. They
don’t want to dominate or suppress women and are willing to receive and love a
woman for who she is and even as she is.
All they ask in return is that women love and receive them for who they
are and as they are but the gender gap between men and women is not just about
trivial preferences and unrealistic expectations; it goes deeper than
that. As Benitta Arndt and a publication
called the New Statesman point out, the gender gap is driven by ideological
differences than by anything else.
First from Arndt:
They’ve gone full
throttle left — and three quarters of college-educated women won’t even date a
man who votes differently. [6]
And then from the
New Statesman:
Gen Z women are
more left wing than their male peers when it comes to politics and economics… One in four young women say that their partner having
different political views to them would be a red flag in a relationship.
However, on particular political issues, women’s stance is more hard-line. Six
in ten say they would find it difficult to date someone who disagreed with them
on the Palestine/Israel conflict, or who did not share their views on Donald
Trump. Seventy-four per cent say they’d find it difficult to be in a
relationship with someone who did not share their views about social justice.
Young women are also more likely than young men to say that they would not have
a relationship with someone who disagreed with them over immigration… Women under 30 are much more inclined to be on the
left economically than men their own age, although both favour increasing
government intervention and believe that it is more important to reduce
inequality than it is to grow the economy. While young women are relatively
evenly divided over whether they believe “it is unfair some people have more
than others and we should redistribute wealth” (43 per cent) or that “people
deserve to keep what is theirs, even if that means that others have less” (40
per cent), men are more decisively split: 37 per cent are inclined towards
redistribution whereas 51 per cent are not.
Men of this
generation are substantially more positive about capitalism (net +28), whereas
women view it (+2) substantially less favourably than communism (+11). This is,
in part, a consequence of how young men believe that “the economy works well
for people like me” (48 per cent to 37 per cent), while women believe it works
against them (43 per cent to 34 per cent). [7]
But it isn’t just
economic, immigration, or foreign policy that drive the gender gap between men
and women, but also social issues such as LGBT behavior, abortion, civil
liberties, and spirituality and while it is not the purpose of this post to
examine in depth the ideological aspect of the gender gap and why it is that
young women tend to be more likely to embrace leftist ideology than young men
and why they might even tend to be less spiritual than young men but it seems
that young men have become more disillusioned with leftist ideology than young
women and I pray that young women will come to be every bit as disillusioned
with leftist ideology as the young men and will even come to follow them in
embracing the God who is the Creator and redeemer of them both but honestly, I
do not know what it that might take except for the removal of a male presence
and availability for a season and if that were to happen and if something were
to fill the void in men that not enough women are filling, whatever that might
end up being, then I must admit that:
I would then be
curious as to how long, if at all, women, under such circumstances would
finally become much more flexible in their preferences and significantly lower
their expectations to where the only things that matter to them is just having
someone to love, be loved by, and who will be a faithful and life-long intimate
companion to them.
because I don’t know as by what means that
which is needed to fill the vacuum in a man’s life that women should be filling
but aren’t stepping up to fill would be produced and I fear the
dangers behind that as well because the forces who would be eager to produce
something to fill that void will not be of a benevolent nature but one of
malevolence and whose objective is the destruction of all life and leading
multitudes of souls into eternal damnation.
All I know is that very thing
produced for the purpose of filling that “female-shaped” vacuum within the man
would have to manifest itself in a female form and whatever that might be, I
would hope might be something that might finally provoke women to jealousy and
finally motivate them to lowering their expectations significantly, be much more flexible in their preferences and even
reassess and reconsider everything they have been made to believe in and trust
in and that in the process of that, will sincerely seek out the Lord God
Almighty by whom both men and women are made and finally receive within
themselves that necessary spiritual transformation for the better that will
cause them to want to eliminate divisions between them and men that ought not
exist and I know that if a generation of women were to be deprived of the presence
of available men, there will be some who will be driven to be more flexible in
their preferences and expectations and then there will still be those who will
stubbornly hold to expectations that most men will not be able to live up to
and who will continue to embrace toxic ideologies that cause a division that
otherwise might be virtually non-existent.
But it is my hope
and prayer that somehow, this gender gap will be narrowed and virtually
eliminated and that God will work in the hearts of both men and women and will
cause them to soften and turn their hearts towards one another and to unite
them both together in a spirit of a mutual love and respect for one another and
without any contempt in their hearts and with no desire to dominate or control
each other and to value each other simply for who they are and nothing more
because God had designed the man and woman to be together in a perfect and
uninterrupted unity and harmony because He had created the entire universe to
be a place of perfect peace and harmony and within it was a harmony and a peace
shared between God, man, and nature until the day that harmony was disrupted
and it was disrupted in the day that a certain lying spirit, in the form of a
serpent, crept into the once good world that God had made and led the first man
Adam and the first woman Eve to commit an act of astronomical consequence and
that fateful act was the eating of a fruit from a certain tree called the tree
of the knowledge of good and evil after having been warned of God that in the
day that they ate thereof, they would surely die (Gen. 2:16-19, 3:3) but that
lying spirit who led them into that act of disobedience falsely assured them
that they would not surely die (Gen. 3:4) as they had been warned and falsely
promised them that they would attain to better things (v. 5) and when they did
eat of that forbidden fruit, they did not attain to better things as they were
made to believe but were instead reduced to an inferior status and they were
not spared the sentence of death of which they were warned but the sentence of
death came upon them for their disobedience just as they were warned and to
which they eventually succumbed. (v. 19)
Men and women were
never created to be divided against each other but to be in perfect unity and
bound together in a perfect love for one another but in and ironic twist, they
also became united in listening to the voice of a lying spirit rather than the
voice of God. They became united in
their disobedience to God, united in the sin that entered into them as a result
of the eating of that forbidden fruit, and as a consequence, both the man and
the woman now share the sentence of death and the lying spirit who led Adam and
Eve into that fateful act of disobedience had once been an angel named Lucifer
who had served at the throne of God as a covering cherub until the day that he
had become so lifted up in pride that he thought that he could become like God
and as a consequence for attempting to make himself equal with God, he and all
who sided with him against God were cast from their places in Heaven (Is.
14:11-21, Ezek. 28:12-19) and it was in that day that Lucifer became known as
Satan or the Devil and what he could not accomplish in Heaven, he sought to
accomplish on the earth which he did by causing Adam and Eve to eat of that
forbidden fruit which they were told by God to not eat which then caused sin to
enter into them both and which brought death to them both but the consequences
of that act of disobedience did not stop with Adam and Eve, but were extended
to the rest of mankind who are descended from them for it is from Adam and Eve
that the sin that entered into them was inherited by all of mankind (Rom. 5:12)
sin being defined not by just an evil act or ill-spoken words but by the
corrupted condition of our nature which not only influences our outward
behavior and what we speak, but it also influences our thoughts, motives, and
attitudes which then, if given into, produce what is said and the acts that are
done which is why it is written that we are not defiled by what comes from
without but what is from within (Mt. 15:11, 18-20) and which is why that we all
sin and fall short of the glory of God (Rom. 3:23) which in turn subjugates us
to death which is why it is written that the wages of sins is death (Rom. 6:23)
but the consequences of Adam and Eve’s disobedience still does not stop with
even mankind, but extends to all of creation and is why death, sin, suffering,
pain, sorrow, grief, anguish, and evil abound in this present world and
throughout all of creation which is why it is written that the entire creation
groans and travails in pain to this day (Rom. 8:19-22) but not only did the
disobedience of Adam and Eve bring sin and death to mankind and subjugate
creation to the curse brought upon it due to the entry of sin into the world,
it also gave Satan justification to claim lordship over the kingdoms and
nations of the world (Mt. 4:8-9, Lk. 4:6-7) which is why he is called the
prince of this world (Jn. 12:31, 16:11) and he reigns through the power of sin
and death and he builds and retains his power upon lies and it was by a lie
that he led the first man and the first woman into that fateful act of
disobedience by which sin, death, evil, and every kind of grief, suffering, and
hardship came into world, and by that same lie he subjugated mankind to sin and
death and the entire creation to the death, decay, pain and suffering that is
witnessed and experienced in it today, and it was that very same lie that made
Satan the father of lies and which also made him a murderer (Jn. 8:44) and not
only is Satan a liar and a murderer, but he is also the thief who comes to
kill, steal, and destroy (Jn. 10:10)
By sin he murders
and destroys and through deceit, he diminished the dominion mandate that was
initially given to man (Gen. 1:26) and now has made himself lord and ruler over
the entire world and continues to deceive multitudes with his lies, leading
them to eternal destruction.
By a lie, he ruined
that perfect unity that once existed between God and man and it was by that
very lie that Satan had used to lead Adam and Eve into that fateful act of
disobedience which brought sin, death, and all kinds of pain and suffering into
the world that he had sown disunity and division that continues to this day and
the division and the disunity that we witness and experience in the world today
did not begin between people and it did not begin between men and women, but it
began between man and God because the sin that entered into mankind caused a
separation and an estrangement between man and his Maker and then afterwards that
division and discord which began between God and man eventually became extended
to the household between two brothers which resulted in one killing the other
(Gen. 4) and this same division and discord that extended to the children has now
not put siblings at odds with one another but it has also put children at odds
with their parents, has set neighbor against neighbor, nation against nation,
kingdom against kingdom, and has set those who should be enjoying a perfect and
uninterrupted unity and fellowship with one another against each other and this
same spirit that is responsible for racial division, class warfare, wars between
different nations, kingdoms, and factions, political divisions, generational discord,
is also responsible for the gender gap crisis as well.
What God intended
to be united in a bond of a lasting matrimonial deep and intimate love is now
divided by pride, conceit, selfishness, vanity, and self-righteousness,
bitterness, envy, and hatred and it ought not exist anymore than any other form
of division and that division is caused by the following:
One side is driven
by pride and a sense of superiority.
The other is
driven by a bitterness, resentment, and self-righteousness.
Neither are
acceptable in the eyes of God and both need to be rejected.
Whether anyone believes
it or not, there is clearly an unseen spiritual agenda behind the gender gap
crisis and behind the loneliness pandemic prevalent particularly among men once
the crisis has reached its peak, that force by which the crisis is
manufactured, will present what will seem like a viable solution to that problem
and that solution to the loneliness pandemic will be female because the force behind
it knows that only a female figure will be able to effectively treat the loneliness
of most men (homosexuality will not be a sell to the vast majority) and when it
is produced and presented, multitudes of discouraged men are going to run to it
in hopes of relieving and escaping that pain but it will be designed to lure lives
and souls to destruction and eternal damnation.
God offers to all
of us restoration and reconciliation because He is not willing that any should
perish but that all would come to repentance (2 Pet. 3:9) and the restoration
and reconciliation that He offers is first a reconciliation of man to Himself
and then afterwards a restoration of unity between people and the restoration
of that unity that he created to exist and to last between the man and the woman
and one that is founded only in a pure and genuine self-sacrificing love for
each other which begins in Christ Jesus our Lord and Savior whom God sent into
the world to offer Himself up on our behalf for our sins and to take away the
sins of the world which He did by His death on the cross upon which He was
crucified whose sinless blood purchased redemption on behalf of sinful man and
after having purchased in His death our redemption, was raised again from the
dead so that we, if we will but place our faith in Him for the forgiveness of
our sin and for the salvation of our souls, will be made justified in Him in
the sight of God the Father. (Rom. 4:25)
And it is the
redemption of our souls that we receive in us an inward transformation (2 Cor.
5:17) that causes us to no longer desire to follow after selfish and worldly
pursuits but after those things that pertain to the Kingdom of Heaven,
to no longer take
pleasure in those things that are evil and displeasing in the sight of the
Lord, but in that which is good, right, and pleasing in His sight,
to no longer
desire to walk in the lies of this present world, but only in the truth that
comes from Christ Almighty who is the source of all truth, (Jn. 14:6)
no longer placing
our hopes in the things of this present world, but looking forward to that new
and better world to come, (Rev. 21-22)
to no longer rely
on worldly resources, men, or even our own power, abilities, skills, and wisdom
for our needs and provision but upon God who is able to meet all of our needs,
recognizing that the resources of this world and even the people He brings into
our lives are but instruments and vessels through which God meets our needs and
that the skills, power, knowledge, and wisdom by which we might acquire our
provision are provided and instilled in us by God, (Mt. 6:25-33)
to no longer fear
what men can do to us, but rather fearing the God before whom we will have to
one day give an account for how we lived our lives, (Mt. 10:28)
to no longer look
to corruptible institutions within our society for direction and order in our
lives but to God who, by His written Word has given us laws and precepts to be
applied to our lives and which serve to produce and maintain an ordered life, and
who, by His Holy Spirit which comes to dwell within us upon repentance,
establishes in our lives a course and direction in our lives to pursue for His
glory,
to no longer seek
our own glory but the glory of God,
to no longer rally
behind corruptible men, but instead behind the incorruptible God in Heaven
bearing in mind that those men and women God raises up for our edification are
but instruments and servants of His for that respective purpose to which He has
called them,
to no longer seek
to align ourselves with the things of darkness but only with the things of the
light,
to no longer trust
in the wisdom of the world but only on the wisdom and knowledge that comes from
above, (Jas. 1:5) nor depend on corruptible earthly authorities to swiftly
administer justice, but only in the power of God to deliver us from evil.
Men and women have
a choice to make: Unity, reconciliation, and restoration under Christ Jesus or a
rejection of the grace and redemption He offers to both which will result in a
continual division by sin against each other and not only that, an eternity of
an unrelenting torment in the darkness and fires of Hell where there is no
love, no mercy, and no reconciliation.
But if any of you
out there who have yet to call upon the name of the Lord Jesus for the
forgiveness of sins desire restoration, reconciliation, and an end to needless
conflict and division in your life, then I urge you today to call upon His name
for the forgiveness of sins and in sincere repentance because reconciliation
and restoration begins with our Creator.
It is just a simple sincere prayer of repentance away:
"Lord Jesus I
need you.
I realize that I
am a sinner
who has fallen
short of the glory of God
and that my
goodness falls short
of your standard
of Moral perfection.
Please forgive me
of all of my sins.
Come into my heart
and into my life
to be the Savior
and Lord of my life.
Make me into the
servant and follower
that you want me
to be.
In your name Lord
Jesus, I pray.
Amen."
Know that God is
not concerned with the words that you use to call upon Him forgiveness, but
with the attitude of your heart and if you have, with all sincerity, have asked
Christ to forgive you of your sins, placing your trust in Him only for your
salvation and in nothing else, then your sins are forgiven and your place in
Heaven is certain.
End notes:
1. Discern TV, “Young Women Are Far More Likely
to Hate Young Men Than the Other Way Around,” Rumble
https://rumble.com/v78qx6e-young-women-are-far-more-likely-to-hate-young-men-than-the-other-way-around.html
2. Scarlett Maguire, “Revealed: the new
radicalism among young women,” The New Statesman, April 15, 2026
https://web.archive.org/web/20260415091649/https://www.newstatesman.com/politics/polling/2026/04/revealed-the-new-radicalism-among-young-women
3. Redpill Bot X Post, X, 4:48 PM, May 30, 2026
https://x.com/redpillb0t/status/2060870945619997092
4. Stefanie O'Connell, “Single women are buying
more houses. The men they are dating are not responding well,” The Guardian,
May 13, 2026
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2026/may/13/women-home-buyers-men-dating
5. Bettina Arndt, “No wonder men are opting out,”
Bettina Arndt, May 14, 2026
https://bettinaarndt.substack.com/p/no-wonder-men-are-opting-out?r=4tjdnk&utm_medium=ios&triedRedirect=true
6. Ibid.
7. Maguire, “Revealed: the new radicalism among
young women,” The New Statesman, April 15, 2026
Scripture references:
1. Daniel 2:43
2. Genesis 6:5
3. Genesis 1:26
4.
Numbers 15:16
5.
Acts 10:34
6.
Galatians 3:28, Colossians 3:11
7. Genesis 2:16-17, 3:3
8. Genesis 3:4
9. Genesis 3:5
10. Genesis 3:19
11. Isaiah 14:11-21, Ezekiel 28:12-19
12. Romans 5:12
13. Matthew 15:11, 18-20
14. Romans 3:23
15. Romans 6:23
16. Romans 8:19-22
17. Matthew 4:8-9, Luke 4:6-7
18. John 12:31, 16:11
19. John 8:44
20. John 10:10
21. Genesis 4
22. 2 Peter 3:9
23. Romans 4:25
24. 2 Corinthians 5:17
25. John 14:6
26. Revelation 21-22
27. Matthew 6:25-33
28. Matthew 10:28
29. James 1:5
30. 2 Corinthians 5:18
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